Transform Relationships: Expert Guidance from In-Flow Interventions

When you ask someone what they want to change about their relationship(s), you may hear something to the effect: I want us not to argue as much. I want to feel and be supported. We need to improve our communication. It feels stuck, like we aren’t growing or going anywhere. I wish we were closer or spent more time together.

As general as these statements are, behind them are layers of experiences that leave a person feeling like something must change. And, asking the question, is change possible?

If we are asking the question, it suggests that there is some form of value.

What we need to know

True transformation requires information. Some things work themselves out with time. There are no ideal relationships. To experience transformation, we must be willing to change ourselves. Transformation may be one-sided. Transformation could also mean the end of something as we have known it. It will not look the way you think.

Step one:

Self-evaluation - In what way(s) are you contributing to the relational stagnation or breakdown? What changes do you need to make within yourself to ignite your transformation? How will you make those changes, and what aids/resources do you need? Are you willing and ready to put your entire self into self-transformation?

Step two:

Situational evaluation - Identify the environment of the relationship; are there children, is it your child, is this a marriage where there are specific expectations, how long have you known the person(s), what are stressors surrounding or that lie within (addiction, abuse, mental health, unemployment, and sickness).

Step three (and the last thing you can control):

Acknowledgement -Ask the other person(s) if they are willing and ready to participate in a transformation.

My goal with the above steps is to help you start the conversation. Understandably, some or most of the answers to the questions raised and the journey ahead will require tools to discover the truths, your truth. I want you to consider what you don’t know, and in what ways you will manipulate yourself to reach your conclusions.

If you need intervention, reach out and book a session. Transform your connection!

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